

YOU DON’T HAVE TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.
But if you did believe you could do it, what would you do?
“It” is that thing you fantasize about. “It” is technically possible but feels impossible.
So I ask again if you did believe you could do it, what would you do?
There are two main possibilities.
- When you think through all of the details of what it would take to actually do it, you realize you don’t really want to. You just enjoy the fantasy, romanticized version of it in your head. You realize that you are actually on the right path for yourself, and this realization fills you with gratitude.
- You realize that if you actually believed you could do it, you would be taking steps to get it done.
This second possibility is the biggest reason people say that you won’t succeed if you don’t believe in yourself. If you believe you’re going to fail, why waste the time and energy? If you don’t believe in yourself, you probably won’t take action, and therefore not achieving “it” will become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
However, let’s say you’re on board. You recognize that you have to believe in yourself. But you can’t bring yourself to actually feel confident in yourself. Maybe you’ve failed too many times in the past. Maybe you have other people telling you it’s too much of a long shot. In any case, you know it’s technically possible, but you don’t believe it will actually happen.
That’s ok! Simply go back to the question: “If you did believe it was possible, what would you do?”
And then do that.
Find out what others did to accomplish “it”.
Read autobiographies of those who were successful. Watch their interviews.
Figure out an action plan that you actually believe would get someone to that goal. Not you – just someone. Maybe, someone, you do believe in.
Then, follow that plan. It’s ok if you still don’t believe it will work, as long as you fake it. And fake it well. Imagine you are an actor in a play, and your character is whoever you think would absolutely crush this goal. Any time you’re executing the plan, do what they would do. Talk about how they would talk. Adopt their confident body language.
What would this person do when they faced setbacks? Would they see it as proof that “it” will never happen for them, or as a learning opportunity?
With enough practice, you’ll find that you start to actually become that person. You see the success of your efforts. Not always. Everyone fails sometimes. But you’ll also succeed sometimes.
As the evidence piles up, you’ll start to believe that maybe, just maybe, you actually can do it.
And maybe, in the end, you actually do. But even if not, you accomplish and grow so much more than you would have if you never had the courage to fake it.
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๐๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถโ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ธ, ๐ธ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ. ๐๐ฐ๐ฏโ๐ต ๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ฉ๐บ – ๐ง๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ญ ๐ง๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ซ๐ฐ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ด๐ด๐ข๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ฑ๐ณ๐ช๐ท๐ข๐ต๐ฆ๐ญ๐บ.
๐๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ช๐จ๐ฉ๐ต ๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ช๐ฏ๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด๐ต๐ฆ๐ฅ, ๐ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ 4 ๐ด๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ต๐ด ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ง๐ต ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ต๐ฆ๐ด๐ต ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ธ ๐ฑ๐ณ๐ฐ๐จ๐ณ๐ข๐ฎ ๐ข๐ต ๐ข ๐ฅ๐ช๐ด๐ค๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ต. ๐๐ต ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ด ๐ด๐ช๐ฏ๐จ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ฑ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ด ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ฅ๐ช๐ง๐ง๐ช๐ค๐ถ๐ญ๐ต ๐ด๐ช๐ต๐ถ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ต๐ช๐ฎ๐ช๐ป๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ช๐ณ ๐ฃ๐ฐ๐ฅ๐บ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฎ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ, ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต ๐ต๐ฉ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ถ๐จ๐ฉ ๐ต๐ฐ๐ถ๐จ๐ฉ ๐ต๐ช๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ด, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ค๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ ๐ข ๐ญ๐ช๐ง๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐บ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ. ๐๐ “Stopped by Nothing” ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ฆ ๐ช๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ข๐ญ๐ช๐ง๐บ. โ
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